Aries woman is very impatient and energetic. They need true love and thus look for a person who is sincere and loyal. All rights reserved. They are extremely frustrating, and the mixed signals they give are weird, for sure! He start texting and calling saying all the right things.. We we are good it's great couldn't ask for a better relationship. Being a fire sign always indicates a woman who is creative in unique ways. He got out of his truck I guess to come see why I was thereduhand when he got close to the car I just drove off, and never looked back!!! So we talked pretty intently-but about politics and ethnics, his favorite stuff. I want to give him up before we have even started but though I have had a few dates in the last year he is the only one that has made my tummy go over in the last 7 years. You don't think we are scared too?? They protect their relationships if they see any outside invasion. Am I wasting my time? im thinking maybe he just wanted a fling cuz he knew i was married and now that he knows ill be getting divored e freaked? He had 2 long relationships be 4 me & guess who caught all the hurt they did to him. No matter which perspective you look from in this situation, the Aries male always yearns to do what he wants, and this ends up stirring some conflicts between him and his partner. Your email address will not be published. You have history together 35 years ago . I just let him. Well, after feeling like "I" need to watch what I say, how I say it, when I say itblah, blah, blahI've made a decision that it's just way too much work, and too frustrating to do this, and being an Aries, I march to the beat of my own drum, and to HAVE to try and do all this just to have someone in my life is utterly ridiculous to me, and I've just had enough!!! How is the Emotional Connection Between Aquarius and Aries? I will get bored and feel unloved and move on with a quickness and not look back. An Aries woman is confident, carefree, wants to be where the action is, and she is always eager to try something new and fascinating. This makes me wonder if we had a family would he abandon us? Don't read too much into what he says. During those two months he always crossed my mind. OMG thank you, this helps tremendously .. Join in and write your own page! If she feels you aren't putting in as much effort, that may be her reason for rejecting you. At the time, I didn't either. Blamed everything on me. We will go 2 weeks without seeing one another. Hence it seems they can see into your thoughts and say or do the right thing at the right time. Aries women are fire signs. The Aquarian man is pretty fickle with his time and attention. On the third date we became intimate and on the last date (which was last week) it was like he doesn't want to know. Dating with the Ram is unlikely to be a tame affair. He's talked about all his past girlfriends. (( I think it's one of those stupid contradictions us Aquariuses are known for)) If you're Aquariuses is being very romantic, rushing along, don't just assume that he is ready for a relationship! the same thing, we dont know where this will go. our connection was unbelievable. Cold side Women often blame the man for doing his own stuff and not giving her enough attention, and then she just jumps to the conclusion that he has no interest. Life is too short. Which that was a promise 4 me 2 be his wife, that even after being with him 9 years i have yet to get a ring. Do you find Aries toxic? Indiscipline. Is there a way I can keep him on my Facebook but also do something about all this ignoring? Initially i called him once in a day & messaged in general clearly stating that its okay if he doesn't reply. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. If youve ever had a relationship with an Aries, you know their fiery temper can be both wrathful and spontaneous. Give him space, dont push him to talk to you. To understand a guy with this zodiac star sign, youve got to be very attentive. For me, at least, it is just having fun, just interacting. Its been hard but I'm not calling or texting. I have a friend that fits exactly what you described. and we had fun around vacation even he often sleep while vacation! All the thoughtful gifts and attention would work that magic. I emailed him etc all the things I shouldn't have done but gave it a NC after and messaged him on fb and it was all ok again. Are Aries and Leos Compatible: A Successful Matchor NOT. If i had a problem he would find a way to make it about him or i was the problem. One minute you'd swear they want to spend every minute with you, which we know is not the case, and the next they treat you like the babysitter or some mere acquaintance! If youve been seeing him for some time and his friends still dont know who you are, thats a sign that hes not talking about you with anyone. If you want someone that can feel what you feel, go to Cancerians. Magic happens when a Pisces man and a Capricorn woman fall in love. And if he does and his pride is that strong that he cant be bothered to break down and call, then..it can be so many things. Ive always known he has female friends & even sometimes hangs out with women he knows want him. But he still didn't fight back. Ha! Luckily, Aries never stay mad for long or holds grudges. But when it came to me i couldn't have friends. Aries will give you an action plan instead of a shoulder to cry on. Yes he swept me off my feet, everyday saw me, took me out, called all day, he told me he loved me first and wanted to marry me, etc. Then last week after he has been calling and seeing me more, were getting closer, we got into it again. Now he's completely ignoring me. One minute hes all over me, wanting to spend time, then the next time I see him, he treats me like we just met yesterday! I have put forth more effort, than ever, to communicate how he is making me feel and what I would like from him. This is the first step in his anger cycle. He will call or text like everything is ok Not speak a word about the argument and him being silent.. ok im an aries woman ive recently ben talking to an aquarius man.. we hung out 2wice so far. 2years we've been having a 1 st friends with benefits , 2 nd yr companionship he calls it . I am a pisces girl and had a crush on this aquarius for about 6 months. Men arent as emotionally strong as women. I got pissed of and course him out. If he shows no interest in you or in sharing about himself, he probably doesnt like you. 9 years is a long time to be with someone. Told me he loved me wanted to be with me and take care of me. When he has NEVER caught me doing a thing. Not that I'm thinking he's cheating/seeing other women on me, just that these disappearing acts better be for what he says they are because I have a heck of an intuition. Best of luck to everyone! I am a confused (and frustrated I might add because of him!) And if you try to bring up deeper topics or feelings, he will dismiss or outright ignore them. While Aries is quick to fight, here are a few key things that really make the ram wage war. Plus, both are idealistic romantics who have faith in new beginnings and tend to look at the world through rose-colored glasses. lol. But scared to be open with him cos I know I'm on borrowed time which feels unsettling. A Taurus keeps their anger under control, ignoring it by acting like they don't care until the rage gets too intense for them to hide. At work, Aries put others in shame with their efficiency. I didn't want him and it drove him crazy and he would cry and just be very emotional. I never contacted him @ all. I'm not in a hurry to be in a relationship with him. We have been courting eachothers values truly, and haven't even slept together, I am almost 40 and he 49, I want to wait until I know who my life partner is going to be, and he has respected that, neither of us have been married. taken for granted) by this man. Ive never told him the true depth of my feelings bc I dont want to overwhelm him. I am courteous and timely in my responses (text communication) however, I find this mental confusion uninteresting. They have a masculine touch in their personality. So I was in a long distance relationship with this Aries man and boy did we have our ups and downs every week. i was friends with an aqua man for 7 years, the relationship was never sexual, but very intellectually engaging, fun, and light. It's really cool. I have kids not by him the family is rather close. He's accepted it many times that i've been a great friend & he appreciates how i've always been there. Don't know what to expect I really want him but feel like he's wasting my time I shoul just leave him forever & just grieve him away already. But i know he is not the man 4 me. Aries woman who has embarked on a very strange (for me) and confusing relationship with an Aquarius male and just don't know where I stand, but then again reading all these postings it seems that maybe I never will! Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. This experience is already knocking my confidence. A new book, a new project, a new hobbythey will initiate without overthinking. I never bother bout what people think because we really are best of friends! From naughty to nice, my reviews of ebooks on dating, love, sex and more. With this information at hand, youll find it much easier to see where this tumultuous relationship is leading, how much time to invest in it and the correct steps to win this guy over once and for all. Here is kicker: your heart is totally accessible to them, but you cant seem to get anywhere near theirs. Discuss Capricorn Female Disappearing Act? If needed, I can lay everything out. Aries is the cardinal fire sign and also the first sign of the zodiac. So, if he makes you a part of it or suspends it even for a little while for you, you're important to that man. To see if he actually likes you take this quick free quiz and we'll let you know if it's worth putting any more time into this guy. He doesn't want to go fast at all, no matter what kind of signals he may accidentally be sending. Yet I'm the opposite with my bf and now he's acting distant? They will throw you over for the next new love interest. I am an aqua girl and we aquarius really do need some space, but it doesnt mean that we will disappear for weeks. Period. he likes black joke! However, hard some of them try to keep up the appearance, they hurt as well. a woman needs love and affection. I mean how is it that a man has a woman who loves him unconditionally , loyal, & just a great woman all round. I am 23, he is 21, but acts very mature for his age. And the less he is worrying about commitments and whether it is endangering his freedom or not, the more he will focus on you and he will slip back into his affectionate and caring state. An Aries woman is bold, decisive, and strong-willed. You have to be strong and attention giver if you want to attract an Aries woman. i just had to be patient instead of believing that he didn't care about me. She contributes the passion to their lovemaking while he makes it ever more romantic and exciting for her with his vivid imaginations and fantasies. Aries like to act tough, but behind those horns, Aries can be very sensitive. i tottally confuse with my ex aquarius! They will try and date you but that is all as they love their independence more. Why don't u just say it..its just that ur emotionally immature..even detached from them..i mean all of us women are al.ike right? Pay attention to what he says when both of you finally sit down to talk. Filed Under: Aries Personality Traits, Featured Tagged With: aries, aries men, ignoring, relationship, zodiac. I have absolutely no love-loss for him, and as far as I am concerned he can go to you know where!!